Comments on: Do Your Belief Structures And Behavior Patterns Block Your Success?

By: sell textbooks

sell textbooks — Tue, 04 May 2010 18:31:19 +0000

You made some very valid comments in this post. It reminds me of one summer when I was working at a summer camp that had a lot of foreigners as counselors, cooks, and maintenance. I was asking the Russian girls who worked in the kitchen if they wanted to go anywhere on their day off and I would gladly drive them, for none of them could drive. They wanted to go to the outlet malls and I was game! A little while later I had a couple American counselors come up to me and ask why I was going to hang out with them on my day off. My reply was…..You guys are not very nice to these girls and they hook us up everyday get paid more and have more free time, but get treated like shit by them. I thought I would try and make their stay better and help them to learn the language a little better as well. We ended up having a great time and I ended up taking them out when ever our days off coincided. The other kids who gave them a hard time thought they were open minded, but did they ever once think about how much trouble they had to go threw to even get to come and work in the states, only to have a bunch of American punks treat them like dirt. No wonder we as Americans have such a bad rap. Sorry for the rant.

By: Alex

Alex — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 01:48:20 +0000

I’m just observing myself now and I think I’ll be either totally insane in about 3 years or I’ll go on a world tour in the next couple of years

By: Evans

Evans — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 08:43:12 +0000

Im a very good observer of things around me but not so much of myself. This might be my biggest blindspot. Maybe this is whats keeping me from improving.

By: Gary A. Parenti

Gary A. Parenti — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:31:31 +0000

Yarro,

I have been following you for 6 months now..
I haven’t gained 1 foot as far as MONEY
go’s…I am Blogging & I am give in good
Stuff for Free…What’s up Bro.

G.A.P.

By: NLP Courses

NLP Courses — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:08:22 +0000

Some great NLP insights in there Yaro

For me it’s a case of moving from ‘knowing what to do’ to ‘doing what i know’.

By: Laptop Briefcases

Laptop Briefcases — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 18:27:01 +0000

I really like that quote. It highlights the power that comes from working together with other people. You can achieve much greater success when you are working with other talented people. When you are doing things all on your own, you only have 1 perspective and one person’s ideas.

By: dhanesh mane

dhanesh mane — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 09:38:52 +0000

Hey Great tips!
I have been checking my emails every hour and it has been working just fine for me.
In my opinion, when working online you must create a set of rules and follow them to get things don quickly and properly.

By: ferforje

ferforje — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 18:09:09 +0000

i ve just googled your blog and this article made me numb
after reading this i think i’ll change the way i’m thinking.

By: Pete

Pete — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 14:21:26 +0000

This post made me thinking- thinking again. Everyone thought about before….

By: free beats

free beats — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 13:01:10 +0000

A very thought provoking post Yaro.

By: Cemil

Cemil — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 08:33:37 +0000

Another insightful post.

Even though your post “What Is The 80/20 Rule And Why It Will Change Your Life” is over 3 years old, it is something that I have referred back to multiple times since coming across it. Keep up the good work Yaro!

By: Ian Shelby

Ian Shelby — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:09:02 +0000

Objectivity and analysis, being an Electronics Engineer by profession This trait is now embedded in me. A fundamental trait that is essential to being a good engineer.
I have been accused of being too analytical by those who do not possess that ability.
So be it.
Many get most of their exercise by jumping to conclusions.
So I must agree with you.
Two ears and one mouth means we listen twice as much as we talk.

By: Neil Uttamsingh

Neil Uttamsingh — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 03:46:09 +0000

A very thought provoking post Yaro.
This post really helped to open my eyes, and identify some of my behaviours that I would like to work on, and slowly change.

Best Regards,
Neil Uttamsingh

By: sydney wedding venues

sydney wedding venues — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 04:24:57 +0000

The only time you physically check your blind spots is when you are going to move into that location. If you are paying attention, and your mirrors are set properly, you should NEVER be surprised to see someone there.

By: sydney wedding venues

sydney wedding venues — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 04:22:40 +0000

Unblock it.. pull out ur cork.. u can do whatever u want.. there was this old farmer in a remote area of sum countryside in the US.. at the age of 90 he realised that he did not know how to read.. so he actually took the effort at that age and stage and learnt how to read!! hey if he can.. im sure u can do anything u want too!

By: sydney wedding venues

sydney wedding venues — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 04:21:51 +0000

I didn’t know that ablation was used for bundle branch blocks. As far as I know, ablations are used to treat abnormally fast heart rates and other arrhythmia’s. Pacemakers are usually used if there is a high degree block present.

By: Girl Startup

Girl Startup — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 02:25:08 +0000

Great post. I am trying to think like this more and more…and it is hard. It’s harnessing that gut instinct, which is really hard to do initially.

I also see a lot of patterns within myself now, some patterns I can see so clearly and know what to do or break, others are a lot harder to understand.

But I think it’s a lot of fun trying to master our own universe;)

By: sydney wedding venues

sydney wedding venues — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 06:43:55 +0000

You have the word condescending wrong. Christians are not trying to come across as superior when using phrases like “we are just trying to save you”, just as you are not coming across as trying to be superior when you try to correct someone who has the simple math problem wrong.

By: vektör

vektör — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 18:26:45 +0000

Yes, I’ve struggle more with the sticking to things part than the switching things part. I like what you said though, Antti, about changing things that will lead to progress. Change is really pointless on it’s own. Change should always be for a reason.

By: Looking for Entrepreneurs

Looking for Entrepreneurs — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:12:47 +0000

As always Yaro, a well thought through and challenging post. Great article, and interesting commentary.

Thanks for the encouragement!

By: vektör

vektör — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 17:39:11 +0000

I know what you mean by “the “ah-ha” moment, when you come to an awareness”. I often feel extremely happy at this point:)

By: Head Lice Treatment

Head Lice Treatment — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 23:13:55 +0000

This is a really good post – Pattern Interpreteur. I’m going to re-read it

By: Kevin

Kevin — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:29:57 +0000

I know what you mean by “the “ah-ha” moment, when you come to an awareness”. I often feel extremely happy at this point:)

By: Richard

Richard — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 12:56:49 +0000

My father used to say ‘only the sky is the limit’. I changed it a bit and say ‘the limit is only in our minds’. What I mean by this is that we need to adapt, change and see other people’s views as well when we want to achieve success in new businesses.

By: claims management software

claims management software — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 15:57:04 +0000

a lot of businesses now favour young blood for new ideas.. some guys i used to work for were in their 50′s and 60′s and had lots of new inventive ways of making more business. guess it depends on the person. you are either good at business or not.

By: W3 Business Advisors

W3 Business Advisors — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 20:17:43 +0000

I think as a business and a person we need to sometimes bend on our views and accept other ideas simply to grow as a business or even a person.

By: Suzanne Arthur

Suzanne Arthur — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 16:34:40 +0000

I love coming to your site, Yaro. Especially when you wax philosophical! Beliefs and blind spots are really up for me this year, so thank you a thousand times over for your insights.

I love what PJ commented about not needing to make THOUSands per month, but what about HUNdreds! My partner and I make a really decent living online, not an over-the-top income, but a middle class one here in the US. We’re proud of what we do, we work hard and LOVE our clients and friends.

We were talking the other day about how it seems to be hard to amass wealth through work that has integrity, beauty and authenticity. However, we see examples all around of companies who lack integrity, overlook beauty, and say the heck with authenticity, yet they pull in obscene amounts of money.

Thanks for your potent reminder to me that I need to examine that perspective. Change really does begin in our own homes and our own small enterprises.

Love, cheers, and thanks to you all for such thoughtful comments,
Suzanne

By: SEO

SEO — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 13:39:47 +0000

Thank you for great insight…

By: J.D. Meier

J.D. Meier — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 02:15:52 +0000

Great examples and well written.

I think it’s a big shift going from “being right” to “knowing what’s right” and from seeing through your own eyes to seeing through the collective eyes. de Bono teaches some simple techniques for improving this ability (He’s a great lens crafter.)

I always like how Ken Blanchard said, “None of us is as smart as all of us.”

By: Needmoney.com

Needmoney.com — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 21:49:51 +0000

Great article, and interesting commentary. Having the attention span of a gnat can be just as destructive as analysis paralysis. It’s a disease a lot of newbies suffer from, particularly.