I recently published a video on why it is important to develop a deep understanding of your customer. In that video I covered a brief overview of the different psychological elements that relate to you understanding your customer and how you fit in as a service or product provider, fulfilling their needs.
After reading the comments on that video I felt more explanation is required to help you come to a deeper understanding of this very important topic.
If you can develop an intimate familiarity of how your target audience operates, what motivates them emotionally, what language they use to describe their problems and how their problem impacts their life in real, external and tangible ways, the easier it is to succeed in that market. All aspects of your business are derived from your understanding of your customer, and if you are working off of assumptions, you’re making mistakes and not likely enjoying the level of success you could.
Are You Your Customer?
When I first started teaching how to blog in my Blog Mastermind program I related stories of how I began all my successful online projects.
For example, when I developed a site targeting Magic The Gathering card players, I was a card player myself, who know the game and the online environment for the game intimately well. I knew what motivated players of the game because it was what motivated me.
Magic players want to win tournaments and trade cards. My site was successful because we published content on how to win tournaments, including reports from people who had performed well, listing what cards they used to win with. Later I added a trading forum, the one element that really skyrocketed the success of the site because people kept coming back to list, sell and trade cards every day.
My proofreading business began as an idea in my head after I experienced working with international students writing group assignments at university. Group members who had English as a second language struggled with academic writing and I knew how important it was that they maintain a high grade point average, or risk losing their visa to study in Australia.
This insight led to developing a proofreading service that targeted a very specific need in a specific group. We never had a lot of traffic to that site, but those who did you use the service used it for every paper they wrote, resulting in a high customer value for the business.
If I didn’t understand the psychology behind the motivations of these groups of people, I wouldn’t have been able to meet their needs so closely.
It Always Begins With Keywords
When developing a niche most internet marketing teachers will explain how to do research online, which pretty amounts to developing an assessment of the supply and demand relationship for certain keywords.
Traffic on the internet, especially when it comes to tapping small niches with basic websites as opposed to building authority over time, is all about keywords. Knowing how many people search for things and the quality and amount of websites that currently rank for those phrases, is the difference between making it work and having a site with no traffic.
These methods assume you are tapping into organic traffic flows in search engines, the cheapest form of traffic there is. However it doesn’t change much if you are buying traffic with Pay Per Click, as the supply and demand ratio of keywords impacts the cost and results.
Almost all internet marketing products I’ve come across that attempt to teach beginners how to make money online start with keyword research, as they should, and usually focus on either search engine traffic or buying traffic with pay per click.
Some programs go so far as to not just assess the supply and demand ratio of keywords, but also look at the psychology behind the keywords so they know whether they are “money” terms. Not all search phrases are equal, as some searches are conducted by people researching to buy something, while others relate only to free information seekers, who may or may not ever prove profitable for you depending on how you monetize your site.
For those selling information or physical products, whether as an affiliate or producer, getting in front of the buyers is the most important thing. For bloggers focusing on advertising, increasing pageviews is more important, the quality of the keyword may not matter as traffic volume is more critical.
Are Keywords Enough?
As I teach in my programs, taking steps to research customer behavior beyond just keywords is important.
I recommend researching in forums, reviewing comments made to popular blogs, assessing what advertisers spend money on Google Pay Per Click and how long they continue to do so (the longer, the more likely they are profiting from it), checking out facebook groups, leaders on Twitter, and top organic search results to see what people are interested in.
In this case the important considerations to look out for are -
- Are there enough people interested in a subject to support large community sites and retailers who sell products (in other words are people making money in this niche already?)
- What sub-topics are currently discussed by people at these sites, what language do they use, what are the most common issues, and how do people currently go about solving their problems?
This is priceless information that is available simply by searching Google, so there’s no excuse not to do it.
A lack of information is a warning sign, and although you might think it’s a good thing because of lack of competition, it’s better if there are people already succeeding because that means there is a market. A lack of websites might mean there is no market, though it could also mean it’s an untapped opportunity too, you never know for sure until you test.
Get Personal
If you want the highest quality data about your potential customers you need to speak to them or collect information as directly as you can.
So many people want to launch information products in markets where they have never actually helped anyone before. If you really want to succeed as an information marketer, spend some time actually servicing real live people. You will learn so much when you go straight to the horses mouth, so to speak. Here are some ways to do this -
- A survey is an option if you have a means to access a group of people. If you have a blog or email list with a critical mass of responsive subscribers, you can tap into that knowledge base anytime by simply asking questions in a blog post, email or using a dedicated survey tool like Survey Monkey or a Google Docs Form.
See my Blue Sky video for more details about how I have used surveys in the past to learn about my customers before launching membership sites.
- A webinar where you teach some content first, then ask for questions from the audience, is a great research tool. Teleconferences also work. Gideon and I run regular group coaching calls for our members, and we learn a lot about what people are struggling with based on what and how people ask for help with.
- Providing consulting calls, even for free as a screening tool before taking on coaching clients, is a great method to learn more about your customers. Any time you spend one-on-one time with a client or potential client and learn about their situation and how they describe their problems, is a brilliant opportunity to develop greater familiarity about your people.
- If you’re just getting started, charge $50 an hour for phone coaching and you’re basically getting paid to do research about your customers.
You can’t ever know enough about your customers, so using all of these methods is the best advice, but obviously you need to work your way through the methods as you build your reach over time.
Take Action
In my case the best way I have learned whether my idea works and refined my understanding of the psychology of my customers is to actually put something out there.
All my successful projects were created with NO KEYWORD RESEARCH. That’s right – I’ve never done keyword research for all my money making projects, at least not before I started them. This of course is not advice that you shouldn’t, but realize that if you really want to know the answer, take action and create a website and see if you get customers.
I wouldn’t recommend going in completely blind – I knew the people I was targeting and what needs they had. However I launched all my projects okay with the idea that I was experimenting for fun just as much as to make money, and I was fully willing to fail.
This is why speed of implementation is so critical. The most successful online entrepreneurs aren’t the best researchers, but they are the best at getting ideas out there, which ultimately is the best form of research you can do – a live test.
What Do You Need To Know?
On many group calls I’ve been confronted with members of my programs who show me websites looking for critical feedback and improvement suggestions.
In almost all cases, every website I review has a fatal flaw – It’s not obvious what the point of the website is.
If you want to assess your own website or any marketing materials I suggest you ask yourself the following questions, or have someone else ask you and then you answer them and see if they understand, or you ask them and see if they can answer by looking at your website.
The questions, or really it’s just a question, is – Why?
- Why does your website exist?
- Why should people visit it?
- Why did you create it in the first place?
Often when you answer these questions you end up describing abstract ideas, so it’s best if you focus instead on tangible and external elements, and then ask why again.
For example –
My website exists to give information about healthy eating.
Why?
Because I want to help people lose weight.
Why?
Because if people have less weight they live longer and do more fun things like dancing, play tennis or run around with their kids.
I could drill down much further, but essentially we are talking about discovering the core, external, emotional and physical elements that motivate your customers to take action. Eating healthy is a concept, being able to play with your kids at the park and experience the joy that activity brings, is an external tangible outcome with a strong emotional drive behind it.
If you are concerned about how good a first impression your website makes, watch this video I made demonstrating some ideas to clarify your websites purpose to new readers – Can Your Blog Explain Its Purpose In One Second?
You Need To Know This
Every single would-be online entrepreneur – me included, and you too – does not have a solid enough understanding of their target customer. There is always more to learn, more to clarify and a deeper understanding to be gained from further study of who you are trying to help.
The best way to establish the necessary level of intimacy with your marketplace is to start interacting with the real live humans who make up the market. The more human contact you have, with your marketing brain switched on looking for the cues that reveal the psychology, the closer you get to nailing the needs and wants, so you can better sell to and meet these desires.
Yaro Starak
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I think the rule of “impress yourself first” is a golden one.
Ideally, you are your customer and you know what a great product or service looks like. The challenge is when you are not your customer and you can’t quite relate to the real needs and you have to guess at it. It’s tough to make sense of the data or to prioritize when you don’t have enough empathy or first-hand experience to see the forest from the trees.
well i think U should study first the complete Crystal report area before giving solutions to other people.The solutions given are incomplete and nobody understands how they are done.Thanks
Hi Yaro, it’s very true that unless you know the product inside and out, you’re losing an edge to the competition. Nothing pleases a customer more than knowing that you are on the same page with him as far as passion and knowledge about the product. It not only creates a bond with that customer, but also fosters relationships with their contacts and associates when it comes to that product.
Sandy
Yaro ~ I had no idea that you used to play Magic too! I hear John Choo used to play too! I wonder the proportion of successful bloggers to those that used to play Magic? Trade you a Lord of the Pit for some great blogging tips!?!
If I place myself in the position of my readers and ask myself: “what would I like to learn” then obviously it’s not me who’s going to deliver it. So there is a phallacy in the idea of serving the customer you are today.
The proper way to put it is: what would I have wanted to learn when I didn’t know yet what I know now and what would be the best and fastest way to learn it. You have to vividly recall your own ignorant past, which is not always easy when you have become knowledgeable.
Then there is the 80/20 rule: 80% of what you teach is in your comfort zone and 20% you’re actually learning something about the subject yourself while teaching, through investigation or responses.
Then there is also the fact that very often customers do not know what they want, especially in a knowledge domain. They are waiting for inspiration and enlightenment, and the only way to achieve that is to spread your knowledge, even if people are not asking for it. Sometimes your message will hit home, very often no one will bother.
I think one thing Yaro has demonstrated is that the path to success is laden with iterations, meaning trial, failure, trial, failure, trial moderate success … I’m reading many reactions though as if one single piece of advice will suddenly make that massive difference in success. It won’t. We’ll still have to try.
Hi Yaro!
Interesting post. I’ve never really considered that the best way to understand what our customers want is simply just to understand them at all – simple really!
Thanks for taking the time to explain this in such great depth.
Keith
Hi Yaro
‘Develop an intimate familiarity’ with your customer – I love that! Too many online marketers forget there are actual people behind those keywords and their online search. Communicating online may seem quite detached, however, this only makes successfully connecting with your audience much more ‘essential.’
Thank you
Yaro, Great post with lots of advices and learning material in there. I agree with you that the best way to test your methodology is to put something out there in-front of customers and then learn from it.
This is a great post, its always good to get to know your customers better, this way you can offer what they want and know what they are interested with. Knowing them in person and talking with them is very important for your business.
I like putting myself in the customers shoes to get ideas on what they are thinking and what they are looking for. But I agree, the more we actually talk and interact with real live people, the better we’ll know them and be able to deliver what they are actually looking for. This is probably one of my weakest areas and something I need to work on and implement more consistently.
Yaro, this is flat out a great post. Thanks
Would you recommend having some sort of familiarity with who is nor your target audience too? in order to, for example, disconnect form unfruitful business relationships with people and sites which are misleading for being directed to your niche audience, but are actually not?
The question “Are you your customer” is the most valuable lesson I got from this post. I totally agree that it is important to experience the product or service you are trying to sell, as what you have demonstrated in your card game example. Thanks.
Your Message Constant and ongoing research is key because not only can you never fully understand your customer, both your customer and the environment in which they make their purchasing decisions are in a constant state of change.
Of all the marketing advise I recieved in my MBA program, the best is simply “try alot of things, keep what works”. Never assume you know what will or will not work.
Hey Yaro,
Very informative post! This is a crucial part of any business and if this part is missed then you are surly going to fail…
I walked away from your post today with a couple of gold nuggets that’s forsure…
Thanks,
Billee Brady
Thank you for the valuable insights Yaro. The longer I run my business the more I realize that it’s very helpful to clearly identify who my target customer is and keep getting to know them. It’s an ongoing process of defining and refining and then finding ways to connect with them. Business people can really benefit by understanding what their customers need and why they would seek them out for services or products. Ultimately, this process is about us learning who we are and what we offer. Then we can go looking for the people who will be interested in what we offer.
I really like your question: “are you your customer?” I run two sites. For the bigger one, I am certainly not. Given that I am an expert, I could do the work myself. But the other one is much closer. Being a language teacher assumes that I had to learn a language myself, so I can see both sides. I feel that it gives me a much better perspective of what people are looking for on my site.
Hi Yaro,
Yes at one point I was my own customer. It was easier for me though because I worked in an environment where we provide outsourcing services for small and large sites alike.
That became my teaching environment and it became apparent to me what worked and what did not. I wouldn’t have the guts in the first place to leave my comfy corporate work if not for the experience I gained.
This time though, I’d like to expand my experience and extend this to the same people where I was before. The freedom I have now just can’t be measured in monetary terms.
Even if you are blogging for fun, what’s the fun if nobody’ has time to read it.
Thanks
Misbah Mumtaz